Reflect, Replace,
Reinforce: A process for improving your eating habits
1. Create a list of your eating habits.
Keeping a food diary for a few days, in which you write down everything you eat
and the time of day you ate it, will help you uncover your habits. For example,
you might discover that you always seek a sweet snack to get you through the
mid-afternoon energy slump. It's good to note how you were feeling when you
decided to eat, especially if you were eating when not hungry. Were you tired?
Stressed out?
2. Highlight the
habits on your list that may be leading you to overeat. Common eating habits
that can lead to weight gain are: Eating too fast Always cleaning your plate
Eating when not hungry Eating while standing up (may lead to eating mindlessly
or too quickly) Always eating dessert Skipping meals (or maybe just breakfast)
3. Look at the
unhealthy eating habits you've highlighted. Be sure you've identified all the
triggers that cause you to engage in those habits. Identify a few you'd like to
work on improving first. Don't forget to pat yourself on the back for the
things you're doing right. Maybe you almost always eat fruit for dessert, or
you drink low-fat or fat-free milk. These are good habits! Recognizing your
successes will help encourage you to make more changes.
5. Circle the
"cues" on your list that you face on a daily or weekly basis. Going
home for the Thanksgiving holiday may be a trigger for you to overeat, and
eventually, you want to have a plan for as many eating cues as you can. But for
now, focus on the ones you face more often.
6. Ask yourself
these questions for each "cue" you've circled: Is there anything I
can do to avoid the cue or situation? This option works best for cues that
don't involve others. For example, could you choose a different route to work
to avoid stopping at a fast food restaurant on the way? Is there another place
in the break room where you can sit so you're not next to the vending machine?
For things I can't avoid, can I do something differently that would be
healthier? Obviously, you can't avoid all situations that trigger your
unhealthy eating habits, like staff meetings at work. In these situations,
evaluate your options. Could you suggest or bring healthier snacks or
beverages? Could you offer to take notes to distract your attention? Could you
sit farther away from the food so it won't be as easy to grab something? Could
you plan ahead and eat a healthy snack before the meeting?
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7. Replace
unhealthy habits with new, healthy ones. For example, in reflecting upon your
eating habits, you may realize that you eat too fast when you eat alone. So,
make a commitment to share a lunch each week with a colleague, or have a
neighbor over for dinner one night a week. Other strategies might include
putting your fork down between bites or minimizing other distractions (i.e. watching
the news during dinner) that might keep you from paying attention to how
quickly — and how much — you're eating.Here are more ideas to help you replace
unhealthy habits: Eat more slowly. If you eat too quickly, you may "clean
your plate" instead of paying attention to whether your hunger is
satisfied.Eat only when you're truly hungry instead of when you are tired,
anxious, or feeling an emotion besides hunger. If you find yourself eating when
you are experiencing an emotion besides hunger, such as boredom or anxiety, try
to find a non-eating activity to do instead. You may find a quick walk or phone
call with a friend helps you feel better. Plan meals ahead of time to ensure
that you eat a healthy well-balanced meal.
8. Reinforce your
new, healthy habits and be patient with yourself. Habits take time to develop.
It doesn't happen overnight. When you do find yourself engaging in an unhealthy
habit, stop as quickly as possible and ask yourself: Why do I do this? When did
I start doing this? What changes do I need to make? Be careful not to berate
yourself or think that one mistake "blows" a whole day's worth of
healthy habits. You can do it! It just takes one day at a time!